Last night I ventured to Cornell University to watch my friend’s band “The Gummy Bears” perform for the first time in public. I saw my friend Emily before she went on stage. Bright blue tights and costume jewelry, she was looking like a rock star. I’ve been to my fair of concerts but I don’t have many friends who are in a band. There is something about watching someone close to you perform on stage that gives you an overwhelming sense of respect and appreciation for what they do. Hearing Emily sing comes with the territory of being her friend. And I love that about her! She has one of those voices that are just so strong and moving, you can’t help but feel good. Anxiously waiting for the band to perform, I was forced to listen to the band before them. I don’t even remember what the band was called but the music consisted of a loud, Loud, LOUD noise. I am definitely not a music snob who tilts her head at every main stream artist or group, but I was so disappointed with the noisy band. I didn’t get it. It didn’t make me want to shake my groove thing or evoke any emotion out of me. My ears just really hurt and I felt so terrible that they had to endure the noise. But, hey! That’s just me.
Other people appeared to enjoy it. Some enjoyed it so much that they began “moshing”. Now like I said, I don’t know a whole lot about music. I think something sounds good or is catchy and then I’m hooked. That’s really all it takes for me. When it comes to moshing and mosh pits, I don’t get it. And I don’t want to. Thrashing your head and basically your whole entire body around with a strong chance you’ll wind up colliding with other thrashing bodies is now an enjoyable time for me. Whatever floats your boat, but I don’t understand you moshing.
How did that name even develop anyways? Does there really has to be a term for people fighting to the music? Apparently. I made sure to run for cover when moshers started…well moshing when the band was playing their loud loudness. They definitely were talented on the guitar and drums and the other instruments that were required to make all that noise, but it was just too much. And each time I thought they were done playing for good, they played another song. They played another song that sounded just like the one before it and the one before that. Basically, it was just one long song with little breaks here and there. I wasn’t into it. But I was still looking forward to see my friend so I kept my chin up and stayed away from the moshing and made the best of the hot and sweaty room that kept getting warmer as people shuffled in.
All of a sudden the noisy band was finally done with the longest song in the entire world. My ears crept out their hiding spot and reappeared outside of my head. The Gummy Bears then took the stage and started warming up. The band consisted of Emily and 4 guys all wearing red dress shirts. I thought to myself, that’s one hell of a coincidence if they didn’t plan it. But I think they did and it looked cute. Two of the red shirt men played the saxophone. That is one heck of an instrument. I would love to learn to play if I wasn’t so instrument impaired. My attempts at violin, recorder, and piano were severely short-lived growing up.
After setting up the stage, the Gummy Bears immediately drew the crowd in with the saxophone playing and Emily’s soulful voice. The band performed a number of recognizable songs but really made it funky with the instruments they had. The room became so crowded that the front row I was in turned into the back. Everyone kept moving closer to be close to the band. I wanted to shuffle my way back to my initial spot but I was fearful of moshing. I didn’t know if funk music made people mosh. I didn’t think any music could make people mosh but I was so very mistaken. I remained in the back and caught the occasional arm wave of Emily as she rocked out on the microphone. I was so proud of her. I felt like such a mom who was watching her child walk for the first time. Tears didn’t stroll down my face, but they could have! The music was just so good. They jammed out to James Brown and then did an awesome and catchy Lady Gaga rendition. The crowd went wild. Everyone was dancing. Even the people that looked too “hardcore” to dance to Lady Gaga did and it really brought everyone together.
Like I said before, I really don’t know much about music. But I realized that music can really bring people together no matter how different they are. It was a nice epiphany. It was also surprising I had an epiphany at all because when I am really really hot and in a hot room, the only thing I think about is being hot and how much I hate being hot. A dreadful image, I know. I was pleased that I was able to channel my frustration of being warm into something positive. I was really able to dance and enjoy myself and watch my friend have the time of her life up there performing. It made the hot room and the loud loud band so worth it after the Gummy Bears took the stage. I suggest you all go to concerts more often especially the ones your friends are in. It makes the experience so meaningful and I really felt that way at Emily’s show.